Showing posts with label John. Show all posts
Showing posts with label John. Show all posts

September 28, 2013

Ojai Family vacation - summer is winding down




Before I go any further - let's discuss how I have turned into "those people." This picture totally took my breath away at that realization. "Those people" are the people with a lot of kids (by LA standards), you might think twice about inviting them over due to the invasion/noise/mess that ensues, those kids might have dirty faces now and then or refuse to wear shoes or better yet their own mother may forget their shoes - often, they might have mismatching clothes or in fact no clothes at all, their children whine or throw fits in public despite the best of the best patient & loving parenting, they have too many bikes on the back of their car, and speaking of cars - it might have a mystery smell. 
We are those people. And I'm kinda cool with that cuz the rest of the time those punks are awesome.

Now on to the nature of this post:

We took the kids up to Ventura Ranch a few weeks ago to "glamp" What is that?
Glamp: verb To camp in style, comfort, and/or luxury while still experiencing the great outdoors; to go glamping. Uses: Tim: Hey, do you want to go camping this weekend ? Alan: Nah, that's beat. I'd much rather glamp and be comfortable.
I am not a big fan of the camping myself. Maybe I would be if I didn't have small children clamoring for bottles and snacks and the fact that camping means dirty feet (I HATE dirty feet) and dirt in general. Or maybe it's the fact that I wasn't raised by a family that loves camping. Ya - let's blame my parents for something else! :) Maybe if that had all been different....I would really like it! Riiiiiight.

Anyway - so we headed up to Santa Paula to have a mini vacay. We didn't hit Utah or Arizona this summer and the natives were threatening mutiny if we didn't do something cool.
The cabin was mini perfection. The one huge downfall to staying in a hotel is that we need a kitchen and two bedrooms. Big time. We had a full kitchen, bathroom, bedroom, living room, and sleeping loft. I have now found the ideal way to travel! It was awesome and the setting beautiful.


Babyproofing?? No problem! Mr. LeBaron brought a pack of these babies and went around fixing up the place so I could enjoy myself. That's true love.

Baby loved loved her some quality daddy time.
John tried to sneak in a nap. Riiiiiiight







The glamp site has a little stream running through it. My river rats had a ball.


One of the days we loaded up the bikes and went into Ojai for a leisurely stroll. Riiiiiiiight.
The only thing leisurely about it was..............wait it wasn't really.
C's right bike pedal kept falling off causing - drama.
L kept going waaaay far ahead causing John and I city folk concern.
William kept standing up and ripping that flag off and shoving it into my spokes. AMAZING!!

But actually - since I am used to that kind of drama all the time - I still found the little moments in between very leisurely and peaceful and perfect.


Post bike ride pose


Letting off steam post bike ride. I always love these kinds of shots.




C and I had a fan-flipping-fastic trail ride adventure. Miss C - I love that you love horses. I love that you love gymnastics and crafting. I love that we are so similar that way. I love you.





We were excited to try ziplining. It was a perfect gradient to someone to wants to skydive but is very afraid of heights. My kids? Fearless.


I on the other hand might or might not have screamed like a little girl and shut my eyes for the first part. I might or might not have tried to back out at the last moment.
I might or might not have been sucked off the edge against my will by an eager Charlotte who was strapped to me.


I am super glad you wouldn't let me back down C. That was totally worth it.



Here's celebrating the first time we have slept in the same bed on vacation in 3 whole years. William sparked a downward statistic of horrible sleep while away from home. He is now almost totally over that nightmare. We rejoice!




September 2, 2013

How I organize my kid's toys and life

The subject of how I organize my children's toys has come up recently on Facebook and I thought I would record it here for all time and in hopes to help others......and myself! I need reminders of why I do what I do! :)

Here are some things to consider:

Materials:

1) It's best to have a system that can grow with your family without having to completely recreate it. Meaning, if there was a way to choose a company or type of container that is generic, neutral and will be around 5-10 years from now that's ideal. I originally bought a whole bunch of "shoe box" style clear plastic containers with lids from Target. I recently ditched all of those but they were pretty good while I had them. 

I opted this time around for opaque white ones called Trofast from Ikea. I like opaque!!! I always thought clear was the way to go but I discovered I HATE visual clutter, moreso as I have more kids :) They are $3-5,  and lids are $.75 each I think. They come in 3 sizes: 
Small: Length: 16 ½ "Width: 11 ¾ " Height: 4 " 
Medium:  Length: 16 ½ "Width: 11 ¾ "Height: 9 "
Large: Length: 16 ½ " Width: 11 ¾ " Height: 14 ¼ "
That size is fan-freaking-tastic for many types of kid toys. I will get into all my different categories later. 







I also have a bunch of these I use. From a different system in the older kids room but they are great. It's all a matter of what fits on your shelves!




 If you don't have a shelf already (I did - a really sturdy one that I couldn't justifying getting rid of) I would highly recommend the shelves (below) the Trofast bins were meant for. I drool to have this in my shed for the toy rotation. Drooooool. Not necessarily that exact combinations or colors of bins here - but you can create it however you want. Lots of options here.



I wouldn't use this living room though as it's too "Hello - I am a house full of kids" but if I had a playroom I would! The only downside to using the bins without the matching shelves is I wish the lids fit differently. I wish they wrapped around the outside edges of the boxes making it easier to lift off a lid of a bottom bin when they are stacked directly on top of one another (does that make sense?) but in the above style of storage that wouldn't be an issue as they would never be stacked directly on top of one another.

Bags! Some toys are just too large and bulky to be stored in a bin. So I use these bags. I love them because they zip closed and they are cheap! The clear Dimpa bag is huge Length: 25 ½ "
Depth: 8 ¾ "Height: 25 ½ "  and the Singla is medium at Length: 15 ¾ " Depth: 9 7/8 " Height: 18 ½ "
Dimpa bag $4
Singla bag $3



If you don't have an Ikea near you - pick a store or brand that is large and reputable. Don't pick containers that are too trendy or oddly shaped as this won't jive well with the area you store most likely :)



System:

Two toy areas - Everyday and Storage.

2) I think it's best to have a few areas of toys. The best system I have ever used is an Everyday area (my livingroom) 

and then an out of the way Storage Area to store the toys that I rotate in and out to keep things fresh.


System Details:

Storage Area: I use two areas but you DO NOT need to do this. I homeschool so I am a bit of a freak. For general toy storage I use a mid height shelf in my garage/laundry room (pics above). My shelf height is high enough to stack two medium Trofast bins on top of each other. You want it to be a place you go often enough but not too often and in a location that's easy enough to access - but out of the main traffic so that these toys stay fresh for the little ones. Follow me? 

I also use two drawers in my office/school room for the educational type toys/games/activites that we rotate. These house my sensory bins (what are those?) that I am obsessed with and puzzles, games, etc.
I should and will do a separate post about sensory bins soon!

Why do I store some toys out of sight??? Because I found that when all the toys are out every day they get bored of them SO quickly, they fight, act mischievous, beg for new toys, complain, etc. The goal is not to withdraw their belongings or keep them from their toys - but rather to keep things organized and sane. The overwhelm of toys hasn't hit you yet if you have one child or your children are under 2. :) Wait until you've had 3+ children or your one has had 3-5 Christmases and birthdays - oh and potty training usually yields A LOT of small prizes :) All things that need storing - AHHHHH!!!!!

But, in case you feel guilty about organizing or putting up some toys think about this.... my kids are always extremely HAPPY, cheerful, sweet, loving and eat all their vegetables when I organize for them (maybe not the last part). And when I rotate -  it feels like Christmas. Win win.

As for Everyday Storage this is so simple.....it can be many, many things but I use the Expedit TV unit with a mix of baskets for my Everyday Storage in my living room. Very cute and doesn't look like I have kid toys all over ;) I choose the living room as that's where we hang out mostly. 




For large toys I recommend storing them in large zippered plastic bags I talked about above. I only have one bag in our everyday area at a time. And it's tucked in a corner.


Labeling & Toys in General

I have used various systems over the years for labeling bins. Many have worked - but I definitely do not recommend writing directly on teh bin in permanent marker. This violates the "grow and change with me" #1 rule.

Instead I have printed out my own labels with pretty fonts, etc. but finally what has stood the test of time is just using blank Avery 8160 address labels and with my own handwriting labeling bins. THey remove easily and can be easily updated. 

My bins I keep are as follows - in no particular order:

1) Large blocks
2) Small blocks
3) Cardboard blocks
4) Action figures and movie themed toys
5) Cars, trucks, planes
6) Trains
7) Tracks
8) Stuffed animals
9) Sea Animals
10) Farm animals
11) Jungle & African animals
12) K'nex 
13) Legos
14) Lincoln logs
15) Mr. Potato Head
16) La La Loopsies (dolls)
17) Baby dolls & clothes
18) Soft balls
19) Farm house and doll house
20) Baby toys

Bins that live outside:

21) Hard or large balls
22) Chalk & Bubbles
23) Pool toys & gear
24) Guns & swords

And the bags of misc larger toys 

The Dreaded Miscellaneous Label:

Even though I think most toys should have their own bin theme (sea animals, jungle animals, blocks, cars, trucks, trains, tracks, stuffed animals) there is inevitably some misc. toys. Therefore I have an everyday misc. bin in our Living room and a long term storage misc. bin or two in the garage. I try to keep this bin small because if it gets large it becomes a clutter catchall. But it's good to have one so you don't have 563 bins (LOL) for every tiny thing!!

You will get a lot of ideas from Pinterest too!! I know I do! So many people have far better/prettier systems than me.

Life Organization:


And last but very much not least NO post on organization would be complete without mentioning Flylady. It should be the subject of many, many posts really but in a nutshell it is a system of organizing yourself, your home, your life and your very being so that you can be more effective, spend more quality time with your loves and generally happier. When I say "being" I don't mean anything voodoo or religious. I mean - basic steps to help you be more productive, therefore making you happier and therefore ......you get it. 

Her book Sink Reflections was recommended by a good family friend who has 5 kids - two sets of twins! It literally changed my life all those 10 years ago. I have done exactly the opposite of what she recommends 5 times or more resulting in total Flylady crash and burn. I was a textbook case. I kept thinking I needed to start stronger and that I wasn't as bad off as all those unorganized people out there. Muuuuuhahaha! WRONG! This past spring I decided I needed more help so I downloaded her audio book to my iphone and I hit "shuffle" and listen to whatever chapter it picks for me even if I "don't think I need it". I do this in the car on my way to church or at night while doing chores. It has been the biggest change for the better! I am slooooooowly getting all areas of my life more and more organized and finding more and more peace in our daily lives. If you have issues getting and staying organized or get sidetracked super easily - this is for you!!! (and me)

I hope this post helps you!!! Remember any change you want to see doesn't have to be drastic or "all or nothing" or like anybody else's. Do what you can afford - time and money wise. Being organized might have been some work to set up (took be 10 years to figure out this system!) but it saves me a ton of time now & brings my kids joy. 








June 1, 2013

You're the bomb!!! (and fun date night ideas)



"You're the bomb!"

This is how John says goodbye to most people. This is completely symbolic of his personality. He is the most nonjudgemental, funny, carefree, weird, laid back, hard-working, gross, amazing, insightful man I know. 

Damn........I just love ya honey!

Recently we've started dating a little more regularly (thank the lord). And since "dinner and a movie" does not foster nor nurture the strong relationship & bond I want....a little research 'twas in order.

I found a great list on this blog and wanted to record it for all time - with a few of my notes. Not all these ideas are my thing but who knows!

You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”  -Dr. Seuss





 1. Make chocolate covered strawberries
2. Paris night: get a baguette, French wine, and cheese! (Not exactly Paleo friendly - but a good idea)
3. Read your favorite books to one another
4. Bake cookies together
5. Watch the sunrise, then make breakfast together
6. Attend a local soccer game (or football, basketball, or martial arts showcase. We were just talking about all the local games we could take the kids too - free & awesome entertainment!)
7. Watch an entire season of your fav TV show (not so much)
8. Go for a long drive
9. Planetarium
10. Art gallery
11. Play board games 
12. Movie
13. Visit garage sales
14. Volunteer for a homeless shelter
15. Go dancing (swing dancing!)
16. Go to the driving range (oh hells yes!)
17. Build a snowman 
18. Ride go-carts
19. Rent a movie
20. Have a carpet picnic
21. Go to an arcade
22. Play Frisbee
23. Go kayaking
24. Go ice skating
25. Visit the pumpkin farm
26. Go to a forest preserve
27. Go to ballet performance (LOL riiiiight)
28. Visit a place listed in an entertainment book
29. Bike riding
30. Study social media marketing
31. Bowling
32. Haunted house 
33. Out for coffee
34. Visit a flea market
35. Play bingo
36. Go to an opera
37. Swing by a bookstore (just like our first date <3 font="">
38. Visit another city (yes please)
39. Go hear jazz or reggae
40. See an NBA game                                                                                                                          41. Play in the batting cages (so I can be 4/50 again? hmmmm)                                                                                                                  42. Vegas anyone, lol?
43. Piano bar
44. Visit a nursing home and hand out flowers to everyone
45. Have lunch at a trendy new restaurant
46. Grab a fish fry
47. Grab a pint at an Irish pub
48. Chinese food and DVDs – the perfect mix
49. Attend a poetry reading 
50. Attend an author reading from their latest fiction work
51. Go antiquing
52. Go out for drinks
53. Visit a winery
54. Attend a painting class
55. Visit an animal shelter – you may come home with a new pet (dangerous)
56. Go for a carriage ride
57. Visit the tourist spots in your hometown
58. Take a trip to the hobby store – pick out a project to work on for the afternoon
59. Take a walk – around a lake, in the moonlight, by the river, on the beach
60. Go to a festival
62. Create a scrapbook
61. Go to a shrimp boil
63. Attend a matinee
64. Visit the zoo
65. Go see a local band
66. Have lunch at a church festival
67. Go camping
68. Go hiking
69. Go rock climbing
70. Play croquet
71. Attend a farmer’s market
72. Have dinner at a new place
73. Try out a new cuisine
75. Take part in a community theater performance
74. Go strawberry picking or visit an apple orchard
76. Attend a live, outdoor music night in your town
77. Go see fireworks

Some of my ideas:

78. Take a weekend course at Front Site
79. Play tennis or racketball at our local park or YMCA
80. Listen to a good lecture & talk about it afterwards
81. Rollerblading or bike riding on the beach
82. Shady hike near water
83. Martial Arts or weapons class
84. Comedy show
85. Small venue to see whatever local bands are playing





May 31, 2013

Top 10 Pics of May

In absolutely no logical order at all.....

This pic of L and his buddy on the trampoline. Love it.

Mr. Dirty face and his digger. We have been reading "Goodnight Construction Site" for weeks. It's his favorite book. We know it almost by heart. 


Madam S loves baby dolls. A lot. It might possibly be the cutest thing ON EARTH.

My mini freak show. How I love thee.

No words.......xoxo

The dress. The hair. The foot. Mi amore.
(are those slobber stains on your sheet?! What kind of mother do you have?!?!?)

Oh buddy. LOL. Haircuts are not that bad!

Found on old car.........totally snagged a picture with it. My white legs match my dress & the white interior. Oh lordy.

Please tell your mother you are too big for walkers! If you can climb out - they are no longer safe.

Love this shot. A lot. It appears many times here. I'm okay with that.

My lovers........
(Willsie your bottle has a pink lid. Who is your mother anyway?!)


My sweet girl loves her horseback riding lessons. A lot. She won't stop talking about and drawing horses. My walls are covered in horse art. I am so proud of you C.

This might actually be my favorite picture on earth.

Another favorite. 10 years together and going stronger than ever. Mr. LeBaron you are the shiz.

Sweet baby girl and daddy L. awww

Happy Mother's Day to me!!!!!

The faces......best ever.

My bestie. Truly such an incredible bestie. xoxo

What? That was more than 10?? Sorry? ;)