We we were driving in the car a few days ago we were having a conversation about child bearing, labor and delivery, babies, pregnancy, etc. This is very common these days. Here's about how it went.
Char: Mama, I'm not going to have kids because it's hurts.
Me: Well you could go to the hospital if you want and get drugs to take away the pain. That way you can still have a baby if the pain is the only thing stopping you.
Char: But I am not getting married though.
Luke: I thought you were marrying Randall.
Char: If he wants to marry me, I'll marry him. Maybe Joe would want to marry me.
Me: You might marry Joe?
Char: No, but he might want to marry
me.
Char: Mom do you decide to have a baby or just have one?
Me: You decide, and then you have to
make the baby.
Char: Oh I thought you just had one when you were married.
Me: Nope. It's a decision and an action.
Luke: But anyway Charlotte the Mom decides those things. She's kind of in charge.
Char: Ohhhh (very happy now)
:)